wish i had a load......oops did i say that out loud? lol
by the way i believe the first question had nothing to do with flashlights or am i losing my mind?
second, i worked with old people and dementia and all that too, i find it so fascinating to read about these places and then go see them. everyone is different though, and i agree with letting them get in your head. I go to this one place that was pretty bad, and everytime i leave there i can feel it pulling me back , i havent been there for a while now but am planning to go back in the near future. Its just something i dont think i will ever stop doing.